I don't look at it as aging, but evolving. I'm much more comfortable with myself now, and with expressing what & when I want to try or do. I think that as a result, it may come across as "not interested in regular sex & requiring new & exciting things to maintain a spark", but is really just finally being secure enough to try some things that have been considered all along.

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.