I didn't like giving blowjobs either, at first.

Hubby was very patient and loving. We started out very slowly
at first. I caressed it with my hand at first just to get used to the
feel of it. Then I licked just the head, we did this for a while before we went to licking the entire shaft. I used my hand as I
licked it. Then once he was nice and hard, I put just the tip in my
mouth while he massaged my pussy. That was it for me. I got
so hot from having him rubbing my clit and putting his fingers inside me that I found myself taking his entire length into my mouth and loving it. Now mutual oral sex is part of our normal
sex routine. Sometimes we get so into each other this way we
don't even want to fuck.

Just be loving, patient and gentle and move slowly and don't seem annoyed if she isn't successful, just keep trying.

Hope this helps !!!!!

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