its is human nature to feel bonds to those we experience intense situations with. There are those who have learned ways to wall against those bonds. Kissing, simultaneous orgasm, nuzzling, snuggling, the sweet tiny featherlight kisses, the kisses on the forehead and the top of the head, all tend to help with bonding. Looking into the others eyes during an orgasm can as well. I've lately learned that I myself apparently a while back learned to ask for interactions that help me brick the wall to keep away the bonds. It's not failproof and enough of the bond enhancing items can overcome the wall { sound track .... TEAR DOWN THE WALL!!!}

for me I've recently learned that a good deal of me pain and abject submission enjoyment are mostly just bricks in the wall. that the more pain and subjugation I encourage on myself the easier it is for me to drive home alone and not miss the patrner the pain leaves me comfortably numb.

I had a master who would fly down south on business call, tell me the number of his hotel room and leave instructions to call when I reached the lobby. He had a fiancee, I was otherwise involved, but neither of us was happy where we were. We fucked and I would leave immediately. The day he greeted me with strawberries and champagne I knew he was having trouble. His guilt was getting the better of him.

He was someone I fucked, not a fuck buddy. a fuck buddy is someone you'd go out maybe shoot pool with and decide we're both single and horny, lets fuck.

just my 2 cents.
all we are is bricks in the wall

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