Look at it from purely a numbers view. You are both consuming hours from a finite daily/weekly quantity. And the use of those hours sound like peek demanding ones for both of you. That doesn't allow taking any from rest and things that only you must do for yourselves. That only leaves allocating duties that can be done by other heads and hands to somebody else.

Some overhead maintenance (house cleaning/laundry/yard work) has to be hired out. That can be done for a temporary period until these peeks come back down to normal. Hopefully the extra efforts now provide both the extra means to do that and continuation of the extra income.

Unless you can face up to the fact that you were both fucking off before, there just isn't going to be more hours in a day to draw from.

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