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Old 11-22-2002, 11:37 AM
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Since this thread was addressed to the moderators

I am going to make a brief statement about what has occurred.

Recently I banned a new member. She was banned for 2 reasons.

1) because when I tried to speak with her about something I got a VERY hostile reaction and really bad attitude. I tried to smooth things over but could see it was not going to improve.

2) another Moderator had information regarding her having been banned from at least one other site and the behavior and tensions that were beginning to rise were examples of this. Since this we have had members who believe they have run ins with her elsewhere come forward.

We made a decision to act in what we believed to be in the best interest of this site. I banned her and her threads were deleted because it makes little sense to post to people who are no longer here.

The moderators here deal with conflict and tension here everyday of one kind or another most of which goes on behind the scenes. This situation became public and I know that people are confused and that is the only reason i am addressing it. Many people seem to think there is more involved in this situation but I can assure you that it was a decision that all the moderators have agreed upon.

No one is more sad than me about the reaction this has caused. people I cared about deeply have left and it breaks my heart. Pixies will limp around for a bit, I am sure of that, but I know that it will recover. The decisions that were made were made to protect the site and although it has been unpopular with some it has already proven to be the right decision.

If you have any more questions or need anything please do not hesitate to contact me or legend. I will not be answering questions in the threads...... We have sexier things to talk about there. Lil
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