Had an interesting conversation with one of my Lost Boys yesterday. My Lost Boys all come from mothers with multiple babies by multiple fathers. This was the Lost Boy with the pants. He was speaking about his dad's house and then said his dad has 9 kids. I said how does he take care of 9 kids and he hemmed and hawed. I said, "When you grow up what kind of dad do you want to be?" We discussed a variety of parenting situations and he said he wanted to live with his kids. I asked him why his dad didn't. (I was pretty brutal in this conversation.) Then I asked him again how he would be a different dad and then told him, "Men have no business making babies with women they don't want to live with." And you could see the realization hit his face.

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