You are a Vanilla Vixen!
You may enjoy sex, but you are missing out! If your kinkiest lingerie is from Vickie's Secret, and your most scandalous encounter was a weekend at a bed and breakfast, you're probably not fulfilling your deeper fantasies because you're too shy to try.

Sexperts Dossie Easton and Catherine A. Liszt recommend "that we all see ourselves as young or old dogs with an infinite capacity for learning new tricks."

Adding some new moves to your repertoire doesn't mean you have to give up the things that already turn you on. Pick up a copy of the Kama Sutra or The Idiot's Guide to Tantric Sex. Flip through and test drive one new position that stimulates your interest.

Or, invest in a lover's game that will unleash your fantasies. Start with simple scenarios, a new toy, or racier lingerie. If you gradually add creative elements to your sex life, Easton and Liszt believe "your relationship will thrive even if it takes years to get to where you are comfortable doing the scenes that lie in the far reaches of your fantasies."

After all, they say, "If you attempt any new sexual endeavor and it's not really that great…you and your partner can have a rueful laugh about it. One third-rate sexual encounter will not traumatize you for life."

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I'm so romantic, I should marry myself.