Wild, I am so glad to hear that the lump is gone. The disease others were referring to is fibrocystic breast disease and it just means that your breasts are full of lumps. I have this and it is usually harmless. However, I will tell you that caffiene makes it worse.

Now as for what you can do for your wife...you have done so much already just being there for her but.....remember what you wrote a page or so back about how you feel about her....show it to her....

I wish you both the best life has to offer.

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