I'd recommend looking out for any that are directed by women....for obvious reasons they are likely to have a more feminine appeal, and sometimes, to know something is directed by a woman, gives the woman watching it 'permission' to enjoy (even if it is a little hardcore) without feeling that it's somehow degrading or exploitative.

Sometimes, it's more about the psychology behind it than what's actually playing on the screen.

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