From what I just read...it would have to be Adam. Yes, as in Adam & Eve.

How many of you knew that Lilith is his exwife? Tis true, folks. She left him when he refused to let her be on top. Get this...he told her "I will not lie beneath you, but only on top. For you are fit only to be in the bottom position, while I am to be the superior one.'

Lilith responded, "We are equal to each other inasmuch as we were both created from the earth." which is fancy talk for "FUCK THAT". So she pronounced the Ineffable Name and flew away into the air.

So now you know.

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.