my spouse is 9 years younger than i an it works quite well. His mother at first was little shocked at first then grew to love me as we married and adopted our daughter

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I love the night
I love the element of danger and the ecstasy of flight,
I love the night
I love to dance with a stranger and to feel his delight,
And when the dancing is through, I kick off my shoes,
And I listen to the beating of his heart