In my humble opinion, it's not restricted solely to women.

I've never felt that I measure up to the stereotypical image of what a man should look like. I'm very comfortable with myself, and I understand that outward appearances don't make a person (despite the obvious advantages those who look good in a suit have), but nevertheless...I remain somewhat insecure about my body when it's compared to others.


^^^

That's the politically correct version of "I know that I'm skinny and I can't change that. And I am jealous of those guys that are ripped & buff."

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.