Just to be kind of different from some of the other ladies, I'm WAY too sensitive to want anything too abrasive on my clit. The idea of having it sucked hard has got me cringeing in pain already!

The point is we're all different and my advice is to start off gently and let it build up but for God's sake if you seem to be doing something right, don't stop it!!!!

As other ladies have said, it's all about rhythm and repetition. If you change your strategy half way through, the chances are you're going to end up right back at the beginning again.

Oh and let her know that it's ok for her to pull your hair, clamp her thighs around your head and generally try to smother you to death. It's far more easy to cum if you can let go and do what comes naturally!

And just bear in mind that there are some women out there who just plain aren't into oral, so it's not always a case of 'sealing the deal'. If it isn't her bag, don't fret or take it personally - it's just that different things please different people.

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