Are there any specific types of people that turn you on?
[X ] Soldiers, marines, paratroopers
[ ] Sailors, coast guard, merchant marine
[ ] Airmen, pilots
[ ] Policemen, security people
[ ] Truck drivers
[ ] Firemen
[ ] Executioners
[X ] Nurses, doctors
[ ] Prostitutes, tramps
[ ] Hunters
[ ] Wrestlers
[ ] Surfers, life guards
[ ] Motorcycle people, Hells Angels
[ ] Cowboys, farm boys
[ X] Gentlemen, nobility
[ ] Business people, yuppies, managers
[ ] Servants
[ ] Teachers
[ ] Daddy, uncle
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Which of the following scenes would turn you on?
[ X] Having a romantic dinner by candlelight
[ ] I am spanked because I have been a naughty girl
[ X] I am in the woods and suddenly this man comes from behind and grabs me
[ X] A stranger walks into my bedroom and finds me playing with myself
[ X] My partner and I are making love in a public place
[ ] I am are sold on a slave market
[ ] I am used as a slave in public
[ ] I am used as a slave in private
[ ] I am ordered to please others
[ ] I am a little schoolgirl
[ ] I am sitting/kneeling at my Master's feet
[ X] I am are tied and teased
[ ] I am grabbed by the hair and dragged into the bedroom
[ ] I am used as a dog, pony or pet
[ ] I am verbally humiliated
[ ] I am tied, gagged and blindfolded and left alone
[ X] I am tied, gagged, blindfolded and thoroughly whipped
[ X] My physical limits are tested and stretched
[ X] My mental limits are tested and stretched
[ ] I have to sign a contract
[ ] I am a total slave every day of the week
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Is there any particular clothing or fabric that turns you on?
[ ] Leather
[ ] Rubber, latex
[ ] Patent leather, PVC
[ X] Sexy lingerie
[ ] Uniforms
[ X] Denim
[ ] High Heels
[ X] Boots
[ ] Wet suits
[ ] Servants uniform
[ ] Masks
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Do any of the following environments or scenery turn you on?
[ X] Your bedroom
[ ] A dungeon, castle
[ X] Churches and abbeys
[ ] Farms and stables
[ ] Barracks
[ ] Abandoned construction sites
[ X] Back alleys
[ X] The red light district
[ ] A school or a classroom
[ X] BDSM-clubs
[ ] Estates
[ ] Junkyards and car dumps
[ X] Woods and forests
[ ] Medieval scenery
[ ] Nudist beaches
[ ] Parking spaces
[ ] Truck stops
[ ] The bath room
[ ] Hospital, dentist
[ ] Interrogation room
[ ] The shrink's couch
[ ] Boot camp
[ ] Jail, police station
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

I enjoy the following psychodrama(s):
[ ] The dominant talks, the submissive is silent or speaks only when spoken to
[ X] Dialogue in normal language
[ X] Dialogue in adapted language ("Master" and "slave")
[ ] Obey rules or else
[ ] Reasonable rules
[ ] Unreasonable rules
[ X] It is OK for the dominant to loose his temper
[ X] Swearing and filthy talk
[ ] Military/jail type commands
[ ] Strict training
[ X] Obvious and explicit role play
[ X] Subtle role play
[ X] I like to be persuaded, rather than commanded
[ ] Make me feel guilty
[ ] Make me feel cheap
[ ] Make me feel used
[ ] Make me feel owned
[ ] Make me feel useless
[ X] Objectify me
[ ] The dominant must have compassion
[ ] The dominant must have no compassion at all
[ ] The dominant must only have compassion after the scene
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Sex and sexuality
[ X] I need to be sexually aroused when in scene
[ ] I need to be sexually aroused before I enter into a scene
[ X] I like as many orgasms as I can get
[ ] An orgasm turns me off
[ ] An orgasm must only be allowed as a reward
[ ] An orgasm is a must to end the scene
[ ] Orgasms are not important, but nice
[ ] Orgasms are not important at all
[ ] I want to beg for an orgasm first
[ X] I want my sexual abilities to be stretched
[ ] I want/need sex during a scene
[ ] I want no sex during a scene
[ ] Sex should be used to relieve the tension
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

I love the following attributes
[ X] Ropes
[ X] Leather cuffs and belts
[ ] Steel cuffs and chains
[ ] Ball and chain
[ X] Blindfold
[ X] Gags
[ ] Masks
[ ] Nipple clamps and clothespins
[ ] Whips
[ ] Riding crops
[ ] Canes
[ X] Silk to be tied with
[ X] Sex toys (vibrators, butt plugs)
[ ] Needles and pins
[ ] Cross, rack
[ ] Bondage table
[ ] Cage
[ ] Sling
[ ] Body bag
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

The following scenes appeal to me:
[ X] Being tied up, caressed and loved
[ X] Being in a public place and dominated in a subtle way
[ ] Being taken out with collar and leash
[ ] Being locked up and left alone
[ ] Being tied up in a comfortable position
[ ] Being tied up in discomfort
[ ] Being tied up and (in a sexual way) exposed
[ ] Being tied up and tickled
[ ] Being tied up and (sexually) teased
[ ] Being tied up and whipped, flogged or caned
[ ] Not being tied up, but verbally commanded into certain positions and having to maintain these
[ ] Caned, flogged or whipped without being tied or cuffed
[ ] Being spanked in the traditional way
[ X] Rough sex/being "raped"
[ ] Used as a servant
[X ] Being tied and tortured
[ ] Being tortured without being tied or cuffed
[ ] Being used by more than one dominant
[ ] Playing in combination with other couples
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Safe words and signals
[ ] The dominant should establish one or more safe words
[ ] When I cry, the scene should stop
[ X] I should be able to communicate in plain language
[ ] The dominant should be able to read my body language
[ ] I want to be tested when I use a safe word or signal
[ ] All activity should stop immediately when I use a safe word or signal
[ ] I do not want to use any safe word at all and my signals should be ignored completely
[ ] When I use a safe word or signal the dominant should establish if the scene can continue
[ ] A scene should go on up to the point where I use a safe word or signal
[ X] The use of safe words and signals should be avoided as much as possible
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

To me erotic power exchange is:
[ X] Something I like incidentally, just as a kick
[ ] Something I like, but not too often
[ ] Something I want as much as possible
[ ] A lifestyle that I consider important and want to practice as much as possible
[ ] A lifestyle that should be present at all times
[ ] My way of life
[ ] The most important thing I can think of
[ ] Something I want exercised at all times and no matter what the consequences are.
Others, please specify:

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