08-30-2007, 09:30 PM
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Join Date: Jul 2004
Location: midwest
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Originally Posted by OrliFanatic
So 1 member out of the thousands picked on you and you feel the need to leave? Get a thicker skin and stay just to spite them *LOL*
There is more respect here than most forums i've visited (both adult and non adult sites).
Targeted and ganged up on...i think not...if its the thread i think you are referring to, that member got only what they asked for....they are known for saying stuff that riles other members...and i've stuck up for this member and "got sand thrown in my face" for my effort.
If you want a forum where people can "say what they wanna say without being critized......!!!!!!!!!!!"...whats the problem then?...the members you say 'ganged' up on this other member are within their rights, according to you, "to say what they wanna say without being critized......!!!!!!!!!!!"...And critisizing is exactly what you are doing to them for doing the same thing to another member...which is what started it all by that same member critisizing another member *LOL*
I've been a member here from the original Pixies, let me just say, this is the tamest Pixies of them all. RARELY are their any conflicts nowadays...especially anything major.
This is not just a forum...this is a bunch of real people who have come to know each other like a real family..Even families have the occassional tiff...
Again if ya can put up with the odd tiff...this may not be the place for you...and that would be a shame...cause you'd be missing out on some wonderful people!
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I'd like to point out that I feel that if I had said this I would have received a couple of PM's and a few posts following it telling me what I dick I am. Do I really care? Nope not at all I know I can be a bit of a dick sometimes and sometimes I deserve to be called such. I also know I say stupid stuff sometimes as well. And I just try not to let what a bunch of people on a message board think of me affect my self esteem too much.
Though I don't think the member she is referring to as being targeted and ganged up on was Mark or myself but the original poster of that thread. After all I'm the one who ganged up on her originally. Evidently stating an opinion contrary to the popular opinion is ganging up on someone. I was never aware of this but I'm glad to have received the lesson. But until I came here I wasn't aware that one should never state an opinion contrary to that of a new mother for fear of upsetting her either.
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