I disagree.

At the end of the day when your batteries are

run out and you're running on autopilot, no normal

person is suddenly going to turn into a sex goddess.

That is the time to give her a back rub and a cuddle

and to lie and tell her she looks wonderful.

Send the kids to a double or triple feature at the

movies or another diversion, make your date for

a sexy lunch and play afterwords. Doing something

while you've still got the energy means you can both

put so much more, and get so much more out of it.

Not only that, it's actually fun.

Fantasy is OK once you've got the reality sorted.

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