Man not to sound like a complete jerk but it sounds like your hubby may be cheating on you already. Obviously I don't know the whole situation, but the quick turn around of how he is behaving seems very odd indeed. Firstly though I'd say that it probably has very little to do with you. The problem looks to be laying in him and not in you.

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