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Originally Posted by Wicked Wanda
Sweetie, there have times in my life when I absolutely quivered at the though of a particular person's cock plunging into my little pussy. But in each situation, I had already decided to fuck him before I knew what he was "packing"
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When you are imagining the guy you would like to fuck do you imagine a long, thick penis or a smaller, thinner one?
And what i am getting at is that every woman goes through a jocks phase, but not every man goes through a cheerleader phase. I never had one as I just thought most of them were stupid and cheerleaders were way out of my league.
There are men out there who like all shapes, colours and sizes of girls from all walks of life and social strata.
Not so with women as my experience tells me.
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But why would a "lonely woman" care if you're 6 inches or 8, or whatever? Believe me, if a Woman is looking for a certain size, I think she is looking for a thick one, not a long one. Or at least I would be...
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Well I noticed the being picky about men more form couples than anything, and most women I see on dating sites are obviously spam bots anyways.
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This is contradictory. First you say no one approched you from curiosity, but you know of others are being chased out of curiousity.
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As for women being curious? You ladies do talk do you not? I've known more than one woman who wanted to fuck a friend of mine because they heard he was packing some serious wang from another female friend.
Contrast to a friend of mine who tried to spread the word around about my gifted tounge back in 2003-2004 so I could get over my fiancee dumping me by having sex with someone new. She was met with a lot of "Honestly, you had sex with him?! You're nasty!"
I also get called ma'am a lot despite having short hair or even five o'clock shadow.
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This tells me it is your confidence that is the issue.
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No, becuase remember, three years ago, you guys all told me that confidence was the issue, but when we delved deeper into my life we all came to the conclusion that first I have to actually have something to offer a woman before she will even find me attractive.
I was 25 y/o, living with my parents, couldn't hold a job longer than a few months, depressed, morbidly obese, etc.
All the confidence in the world won't change those stats, simply working on myself as a person, and becoming a man will get me respect.
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Sweetie, if you act and carry yourself as a man without self confidence, this makes you less attractive... so a Woman is going to be much less likely to "check out what you're carrying"
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Oh I think the fact that I get confused for a woman and have man tits is the reason I don't get many women checking me out. Plus, I'm so jaded with women at this point that if one was to flirt with me I'd assume it was all some cruel jape.
Simply put, I'm not an attractive person. I know this, and you too know this, and we both know that false bravado is never attractive.
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Sweetie, why judge yourself against men who have been carefully screened and selected for cock size? I sure don't compare my 34A/b's against the silicone implants of female porn stars, not unless I want to feel REALLY bad, anyway.
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Not ever porn has fake breasts or even skinny 18 y/o women who are cleanly shaven.
I've yet to see small dick porn.
Hell, I've yet to meet a woman who prefers small men.
I've met quite a few women who would make out with me, maybe feel what I was packing, but as soon as I got done eating them out they would come up with some excuse as to why they had to leave and I never heard from them again.
Kind of makes me believe that even if a woman were to get past all my bitterness and decide that spending time alone with me wouldn't be bad that she just won't handle the fact that her date for the evening has a small penis.
No worries here. I'm 28, and I realized I'm not dating again and I realized long ago I wasn't friends with benefits/baby daddy material. Just a sexless drone second husband/step-father.
In my mind I think I deserve to be first husband and my genes should be passed on, but I also know no one here would like to see that happen. I'd make a terrible father/husband.