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Originally Posted by CunningLinguist
So you mean to tell me that you've never had sex with a well hung guy just to see if you can fit it in? Even when you were younger?
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Sweetie, there have times in my life when I absolutely quivered at the though of a particular person's cock plunging into my little pussy. But in each situation, I had already decided to fuck him before I knew what he was "packing"
I suppose the closest to an exception would be the time I went through a phase of fucking college and professional athletes, mostly football players. I am a tiny Woman, and yes the size of these giant men fucking me was a HUGE turn on. But it was a phase that was about physical strength and power. Just the thought of fucking a man so big and strong he could walk around with his hands free, while I was impaled on his cock, my arms legs wrapped around him... well, it was and is intense. I can not explain the feel of this, other than to say it was about the strength, not the size of his cock. Many of these men did not have huge penises. Some where surprising small, though not tiny.
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Originally Posted by CunningLinguist
"Nearly every ad I see on the sex personals are all looking for men with 8" plus."
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I don't really read sex personals other than for my own sense of humor, especially the "women seek men" listings, but I have read them on occasion. Some are very funny. A lot are by professional escorts pretending to be "lonely women" But I don't remember very many with that size requirement. But you read them more than I, I am sure. But why would a "lonely woman" care if you're 6 inches or 8, or whatever? Believe me, if a Woman is looking for a certain size, I think she is looking for a thick one, not a long one. Or at least I would be...
You said two things I don't understand when I read them together:
"....I've never had a woman approach me for sex simply because she was curious as to what I was packing."
"...Known plenty of women who were chasing after a guy because they wanted to see what he was packing."
This is contradictory. First you say no one approched you from curiosity, but you know of others are being chased out of curiousity.
Curiosity means they don't know what's there, so it isn't penis size then, is it?
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Originally Posted by CunningLinguist
... In my mind, I believe I should be with the big boys too!
... the fact I've not had sex in four years and probably won't be having sex for many more means that women aren't buying it or think I am worth the risk.
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This tells me it is your confidence that is the issue.
Sweetie, if you act and carry yourself as a man without self confidence, this makes you less attractive... so a Woman is going to be much less likely to "check out what you're carrying"
Porn movies?
Sweetie, why judge yourself against men who have been carefully screened and selected for cock size? I sure don't compare my 34A/b's against the silicone implants of female porn stars, not unless I want to feel REALLY bad, anyway.
Dont worry so much.
WW