Seriously folks, if the lady says something like this, you'd better listen! She might not know what she wants, but she's telling you she's not getting it.

1) Make time for her. You might have to hijack her to get her away from daily chores and responsibilities, but she'll love you for it.

2) Mount a charm offensive. You might feel stupid buying her flowers and perfume out of the blue but - hey - things like that can melt an ice maiden.

3) Take her shopping for clothes, and don't whinge about how long it takes and how your feet are hurting. You might be able to talk her into shorter skirts and revealing tops if she thinks you'll really love her like that.

4) Make a hairdressing appointment for her. If she gets her hair done the way you like, you pick up the tab.

5) They're right! Take sex out of the bedroom. Try every room in the house.... The odd dirty week-end will give her something to remember (but make sure of the period status first).

6) Finally - good luck. Let us at Pixies know how you get on.