I am curious about what seems to be a new sexual phenomema, men's increasing desire for (just) handjobs!
(First, this is about vacation sex, so please be mindful of that. Vacations are VERY sexually stimulating for me, and this was my first real "alone" vacation since before Katrina)

I do this (handjobs) now and again, it's a friendly, sexy act, and relatively safe for me, the woman. Maybe one or two in a month. More like 7-8 a year.

I have done this 6 or 7 times, in the last 9 days.
The first was a reasonable situation, I met someone, we danced, made out, both of us got very hot, but he admitted previous male to male sexual contact. He assured me he was tested and safe, but I have a personal rule, "not with bi men."
(please do not judge me harshly, I came to this decision mostly due to the numbers of people I fuck. Avoiding this risk issue entirely seemed wise)

As I am NOT a tease, we were able to pleasure one another manually, and safely. (and messily, but these things happen)
I do a fair job, I think, giving a handjob. No one's ever complained, (not since I turned 16 anyway) but I am not a "star". I try to make it interesting for my partner, using a dab of handcream from my purse, adding some special kises and licks, (mouth, nec, ears and nipples) and I keep his hands on me, allowing him to go pretty much where ever he want to go, and have mostly been successful.

In the next 8 days, with other men, "straight" men, I was asked at least 5, maybe 6, more times for the same thing!
That I am aware of, there was no conection between these men, so I don't think I am not the victim of gossip, and in each case I was specifically asked to do it. Yes I also performed other (to me) more intimate act with some of these men.

Giving handjobs is not my preferred activity. It's kind of boring for me, requires a lot more concentration, my hand and wrist usually hurt later, and I miss the feeling of intimacy (and control) that oral sex or intercourse offers.

Is something changing, maybe a new "safe sex" concept?

Or is this just a statistical abnormality?

Or maybe I have not gone on enough vacations recently.

WW

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