Lilith, I want to know too. Many have tried to get me to watch porn before, and I do get turned on, but I have never sought it out. I do not understand why, but for some reason these draw me in. They feel so real to me.
Is it because they are romantic, sexual, and very explicit without being grossly gynecological?
I think you can tell when someone is doing something that isn't natural or comfortable for them, something that is not part of their "off camera" sex lives.
The difference between having fun and acting, maybe?

Wondering,

WW

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"I wondered, am I a lesbian, am I straight, or bisexual? Then I realized that I am just a slut.
So where's MY parade?"

---Margaret Cho