It most certainly is NOT a "backwoods southern thing", coming from a "backwoods" southerner. Not everyone in the south is that way, TRUST me.

It sounds ridiculous and I dont see how your work life would be "miserable" afterwards. If someone told me that, they would regret it because if my work life WAS made miserable afterwards, I would pursue the issue legally.

You need to step up and do what YOU want to do.

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It's a BOY!!