I too used a sling with my youngest. I could go anywhere and no one knew what I was doing, or if they did, nothing was said. I breast fed her until she was 1 1/2. She would let me know she wanted some 'ninny'.

To me there is a difference between being discreet and 'flashing' because you want to be defiant of other's expectations of what is appropriate or not. I don't like it when people stare at me when I am eating, why should a baby? LOL.. just as I won't eat in a bathroom, I didn't feed my daughter in there too. The sling and a receiving blanket worked wonders!

Oh, I wasn't small breasted during that time (nor am I now) and with the appropriate top worn when out along with nursing bras I didn't have to unbutton or fling a boob out either..

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