On day one, I'd spend time with a few men who are very special in my life and I don't get to see enough of. Sexual isn't necessary - although it might be nice to do a romp down memory lane.

On day two I'd try a few new things - find someone who was as interested in exploring BDSM as I am, perhaps have a MMMF or a FMF, maybe use that strap-on. If I got to do some of these things with guys from day 1 -- or men I'd like to add to my list of lovers -- so much the better.

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Life is too short not to love and be loved....preferably multiple times in one night.

I think men talk to women so they can sleep with them and women sleep with men so they can talk to them. ~ Jay McInerney