I'm sure I don't know all the details - relationships are complicated.

But if you're not sleeping together, he doesn't want to marry you, and you are sick of putting up with him....LEAVE.

It will be hard and scary to be on your own, but that's the only way to get enough distance that you can begin to focus on yourself and your child...and hopefully eventually find someone who appreciates you for you. You're cheating yourself from long-term happiness if you stay with him.

It's hard. But all the stuff worth doing in the world is hard. You'll make it through.

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Life is too short not to love and be loved....preferably multiple times in one night.

I think men talk to women so they can sleep with them and women sleep with men so they can talk to them. ~ Jay McInerney