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In my experience, men are much much less likely to explore. I think that at least 3/4 of all women will admit to at least thinking about it.

I suppose I should qualify this. My knowledge of men's attitudes has been limited to conversations, overhead and face to face, about how they want to avoid any sign of "gayness". More directly, most men, during a 3SUM (or moresum) really work to avoid any contact with the other man, sometimes to the point of sillyness.
Things like taking turns to avoid any chance of contact (see my tale "bad sex isn't pretty") to oh so carefully manuevering about the bed so as not to touch one another... well, I spent a lot of time giggling. (carefully- never laugh at a man during sex, he can get very mean and even dangerous!)

The second part, women's attitudes, comes from direct, personal experience. Almost any woman visting NOLA from out of town that I met could be persuaded to explore. Sometimes it took a lot of conversation, and a little alcohol, (just a LITTLE, falling down drunk partners are no fun, and it's immoral to take advantage, and illegal too) to learn that she wanted to explore her "other side". I was always happy to lead the way, and had fun doing it. I also learned that I had to be careful. So much so I eventually avoided married women all together.
Too many women in poor relationships, mostly women who felt ignored, belittled, or who were sexually starved, became too attached, and didn't want to leave to go home! Sometimes, to my horror, they would anounce plans to leave hubby and move in with me!
Funny thing, looking back, I do miss opening that door for so many women.
I haven't been anyone's "first" for a while.

Love,

WW