Oh please...put your chemistry aside for a moment.
Look at what sort of satisfaction you get from being with him and if that really out weighs his inability to do something with you that you really want. If the pluses outweigh the minuses then fine, have your “chick flix” moment. But consider wisely what were his motivations are and how maturely and seriously he takes this relationship. What were his motivations for making the vid? Who holds the vid? I mean what sort of commitment did he make to you? He sounds like the kind of guy who might have the guys over to watch the vid and boast of how he fucked you. If that happens are you ok with it or do you then feel like trash? Only you can answer these questions. But expect the worst from guys generally they will not disappoint you.

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