I feel your pain...seems like everything starts falling apart at the same time, resulting in one giant clusterfuck...I'm up to my neck in home renovation as well, when a bugbite gets infected & is in the process of forming an abcess...soda's right, deal with the personal health issues first (tho I suspect the stress from the other crap was somehow a causitive factor in the health issues), then start knockin em down one at a time...

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