04-17-2007, 04:25 AM
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Pixies Flirt
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Join Date: Mar 2005
Location: Michigan
Posts: 2,357
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Originally Posted by divot109
I appreciate the honest feedback, even if I don't necessarily agree with all of it, but let's turn the tables then (based on some of your feedback). If I am being deceitful by referring to her as my ex-wife, because that is what she is to me (and btw, she is already in her second relationship since our separation, and living with the guy), is it equally wrong (immoral? unethical?) for an unmarried woman who is pregnant to wear a ring to portray the image of being married in order to curtail the potential embarrasment (whether she is still with the baby's father or not)?
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Is it equally wrong for an unmarried woman who is pregnant to wear a ring to portray the image of being married? Is it immoral? yes. unethical, also yes, but do 2 wrongs make it right?
As I stated, morally correct or not, as long as divorce is not finalized, you are cheating and commiting Adultery, as is she, if I am reading your post correctly. If she is doing so as well, maybe she might not have her own lawyer come "after you" so hard because you are cheating, but personally I would not want to risk it. If I were you, I'd put my own involvement with another woman on hold till the divorce is final.
If the woman you are currently with doesn't understand WHY you can't be with her, because of your legal situation, why would you want to be with her in the first place. SHE obviously doesn't have YOUR interests in mind.
I'm not saying that because its "illegal" doesn't mean that the morality of the situation is wrong because they are two separate issues.
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