thanks Lilith and Fussypucker -- it's been fun for me to read your replies!!!

some of mine are:

hmmmmmm - I seem to start sentences with this one on-line trying to say, thinking about it before I start to type my answer.

oooops - this is my ut oh word - I screwed up or didn't say it right the first (or second...) time

ahhhhhhh, ooooooh, ohhhhhh, mmmmmm - all variations of that feels good!!!!

and the .... for me also break up thoughts cause I know some english teacher would have a fit at the way I write these days! lol

thanks again