We're all behind you hun. Here's the thing, while the long-distance thing sucks, it beats losing someone you love altogether. The thing is, this guy isn't even willing to try. Plus, if you were still with him and his ex moved in, you'd spend many more sleepless/teary nights wondering when that *something* is going to happen. I know it's not what you want to hear because I've been there myself, but letting him go will be better for you in the long run. Best of luck and hugs

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I am certain of nothing but the holiness of the heart's affections and the truth of imagination. What the imagination seizes as beauty must be truth - whether it existed before or not.
-John Keats