I don't do rules. You often will hear buzz about keeping things "safe, sane, and consensual". All 3 sound like a good idea to me.

I am one of those who do ascribe to the power of a sub. Their power comes in the form of their gift of submission, real submission. Whatever the dominant partner perceives that to be.

Prior to any dominating or submissioning a lot of negotiating should be done. Nothing like finding out something is a hard limit when you are in the middle of trying to get it to fruition.

I would also point out that since you said it is to an online situation that you will also deal with all the peculiarities of an online relationship not just a D/s one.

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