1) Establish your limits! The checklist are helpful.
BDSM Check lists:
http://www.thebrc.net/check_list/default.htm
http://www.bdsmcircle.net/dslifestyle/checklist.htm

2) Learn all you can about being safe.
http://www.fetishexchange.org/safety03.shtml
http://www.xeromag.com/fvbdsafety.html
http://www.evilmonk.org/A/health00.cfm

Useful links, How-to tips, guides, etc:
http://www.bdsmcafe.com/resource/cheklist/checkx.html

3) Then find a group/club near you:
List of Mass. Groups/clubs:
http://www.drkdesyre.com/meetppl/orgs/orgsmass.html#MA

BDSM groups by state:
http://www.houseofdhamma.org/bdsm_g...s_by_state.html

What is a munch…
http://www.drkdesyre.com/munchfaq.html



I only gave you a sampling of sites. There are tons more. Do a search if you need something else. (PM me if you want)

Good Luck in what you seek.
Have fun but always be safe!
teddy