How does one go about finding a partner or in my case some one who would like to be a dom female here in Mass. I have searched see very little in the area. As I stated before in past posts, this is a diffuclt thing for me. My lovely wife 12 years together! because of her past is not able to even talk about it let alone act on it. I'm not even 100 percent sure of what my limits are. the only thing I do know is that they do not include upsetting the wife

help would be appreciated.
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