Oh guys, hate to see unhappy Pixies....but love the idea of this thread. "Shared pain is diminished, shared joy is increased" always seems like a perfect sentiment for this place to me. And I promise I'll bring you mine, just as soon as I understand it a little better. I'm only just starting to realize what's had me so down lately. But I think I've got my head in a place where I can get through the holidays.

One thing I do know, when I start spiraling around a depression the small stuff seems to grow right in front of me...until I feel overwhelmed, incapable of coping, unworthy of coping sometimes (if that makes sense). I have to trust my friends and family when they tell me things will be ok, even if I _feel_ like they're the crazy ones who just don't GET how bad things are. Hard, really hard, but it helps me get to the point where I can believe it for myself.

(((((((((((((((Hugs))))))))))))))))))))) to you all, "whether you've posted here or not (as DB said)".

Ginge