Sarah:

To quote Nike, "Just do it!" or tell him to do it. You say he doesn't do it to you because he "doesn't know how so he's afraid to." None of us knew how until we LEARNED how to...Of course, I couldn't imagine not wanting to go down on a woman as beautiful as you are. I also agree with a couple of previous comments. MASTURBATE: there is a very good chance that few guys will ever be able to please you if you can't please yourself...If you don't know what makes you feel best during sex. I am not suggesting that you dump you bf, unless you do so for me of course (J/K)...but, the simple fact that you posted this threads leads me to believe that you are somewhat frustrated with this. No matter how great he may be to you in all other areas, this dilemma will lead to irreconcilable difficulties in your relatinship (and possibly future relationships) if it is not resolved. There is absolutely nothing fun or enjoyable about sex if one or both of you are left unsatisfied and sexually frustrated. I bet that you make him cum...does HE take the time to make sure that you do? Ask yourself and him that!!!

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