*Wanda is now blushing over her entire body...*
Wanding is the electrical stimulation of the body for sex play.
Your partner puts a pad wet with a special gel on someplace out of the way, like your calf. This in turn is connected to a machine that generates electical sparks. That is then hooked up to a "wand". Those vary from *Wanda blushes again* insertable devices and such to huge glass wands (my favorite) that send little hot sparks out to touch you in those best places.
This is very intense sex play, and is most fun (and safe) when someone who is experienced does the wanding. I would say my orgasms are ALMOST as intense as a double penetration (anal/vaginal) orgasm.
I have only had it done to me a few times, but I loved it from the first experience. Saturday night one orgasm in particular took me while my left nipple was being "sparked" and I almost passed out from the intensity of it!
This was by far the most intense experience I have had with a wand, probably from all the other things that were being done to me at the time.
Yes, other stimulation was going on at the same time. One person was kissing me, another was eating me, and a third was doing *ahem* other pleasant things... *sighs at the memory* and we were being watched, which is always a nice spice.
The person I was kissing was hooked up to the machine as well, and it made for very hot, almost painful sparks between us. This is most painful when your lips or tongues don't quite touch, when the sparks jumps the distance between you. It promotes very hard, intense kisses, with lots of laughter and giggles (my favorite kind of sex). Then when she tongues a nipple! OH MY!
I was told by the person who was perfoming oral sex on me at the time that she could feel the energy from the device on the tip of her tongue, even though she was not hooked up to the machine.
I have experimented with the insertable and "strap on" device, but not that night. They give some really odd feeling orgasms. You feel like you are having intercourse, that is, you have the sensation that someone is thrusting into your vagina, but in reality you are just reclining back with a small device inserted into you.
The orgasms are intense, more so than with a regular vibe, but I guess I prefer to actually have someone there.
I think the name "wanding" comes from a particular make of device called "the violet wand" Hmmmm try here.
www.violetwand.org.
Sexually,
Wicked Wanda
P.S.
I just re-read the above... do I have ANY sexual secrets in pixes?
Wanda