...that I will not feel obligated to "get in touch" or "keep in touch" with people that don't write to me or contact me, except for Christmas with a card and a computer printout of what their family has done for the year. This goes for friends AND immediate/extended family members. They obviously don't want to include me in their lives sooooo...... I've had it and I'm not wasting postage$, phone calls or time on the computer, any more. I just shredded the last of the Thanksgiving cards I was going to mail. The Xmas cards are next.

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Just be yourself. The rest will fall in line.