11-19-2006, 05:07 AM
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Join Date: Nov 2004
Location: Melbourne, Australia
Posts: 482
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Well Rob, I think as far as precautions go, perhaps dropping the kids off at their grandparents for the night over the weekend might be a start. Obviously I mean all the kids yours and theirs.
As far as your wife is concerned, there is a way of doing this that could work. Before you do this you have to prep everyone at different things. For example, you might tell your wife that you're having friends coming over. That is why the kids are at the grandparents. But you tell the other couple in advance what you want to do and how it should go.
You should already know what to say to the grandparents but incase you can't think of anything just tell them that you have planned a special evening for the 2 of you and so you need the kids away.
Then get everyone over and start off with some wine/alcohol to take the edge off. You and the guy go away into the kitchen or a room that has some ornaments on the wall. This way you leave the women alone. Make sure that the other woman has been prepped on this and make sure she tells your wife what could happen that night. It sounds better coming from the same sex as it would you for example. If you were to tell her then she might think that you-are-being-the-typical-male syndrome. Hopefully having had the other woman telling works. Depending on how your wife feels, the other woman could make a move on your wife, but this would have to be in such a way that the other woman can control without your wife feeling funny or threatened. That is what the wine is for. The main thing here is communication from you to the others in advance so they know what is expected.
If you wife likes what the other woman does to her then you have nothing to worry about. When the time comes for people to swap partners let your wife be the first one who gets started on from the guy. Then you could also do something to your wife as well. Depending on what kind of sex you 2 are into. I don't need to draw a picture here but here is a hint, 2 guys one girl....endles possibilities. From there the other woman might see an opportunity and join in.
hope it helps.
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