rzande1,

Pardon me for being hard and insensitive, but read these responses carefully. They are drawing upon experience you do not yet have. According to your profile, you are not yet 23 years old. Trust them, they are most likely correct. Yes, I know that you are, as are each of us, an individual, and that means that these opinions are not guaranteed to be correct, but the probability that they are is very high. You have only recently moved out of your parents' house. Live life a bit before moving into another one with a wife.