Honey...I'd upload a pic to show you what kind mine is but the thingie isn't working.

The one I use most often is by the company Lady Calston...

it sounds like jennaflower and I have a little bit different *equipment* as mine doesn't DO much of anything except buzz softer or harder, no variables in the vibration or pulse for mine except what I mentioned.

Shopping in L.A. for my toys was a HOOT!!

(I'll email you a link if you want to see what mine looks like)