A loving relationship and satisfying sex life can come in many forms. I understand that he tires easily and doesn't have much stamina, but if what you ask of him doesn't take alot of energy on his part, maybe he would be more willing. I think it would do him worlds of good to be able to please you, and to be a part of your sexual satisfaction.

If you were to use a dildo while he fingered your clit and sucked your nipple (something I love, BTW!), it wouldn't require much from him and you'd be a happy camper. What if you (or he) used a small bullet on your clit while he finger-fucked you (also something I love)? He could get nice and comfy and you could position yourself to make it easy for him.

Where there's a will, there's a way!

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Dear Lord, I pray for wisdom to understand my man, love to forgive him, and patience for his moods. Because Lord, if I pray for strength, I'll beat him to death. AMEN


It's no trick loving somebody at their best. Love is loving them at their worst.
~Tom Stoppard~


It isn't premarital sex if you have no intention of getting married.
~George Burns~


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