I think it's dangerous to mix the terms honor and pride. Sometimes my pride gets in the way of doing honorable things -- but I tend to think that doing the "right" thing has rewards...even if your pride takes a blow.

I don't have kids yet, so I don't feel pressure on that front. But I *do* try to be an example to my direct reports and co-workers. I sometimes am an example in my MBA group as well, but I think some view me as an "evil genius" at school.

For me, being honorable first means to do no harm. I try not to hurt others and to live my life in the best way possible. Secondarily, I try to help others as much as possible -- by giving money and time to the right causes, by caring for friends and family, and by trying to make the world a better place.

IMO, honor is but a concept until you put your good thoughts into powerful actions!

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