Well...I'm just not clear on several things so I'm sitting this out. I don't like to assume and there are too many unanswered questions.

Beside all the questions I asked that I don't have an answer to, you stated that she is NOT very mad at the situation but does not wish to talk unless it relates to your daughter????? Did you mean she IS very mad? It's a little confusing.

I don't know what to say if I don't know how she found out...but it's ok if you don't want to say.

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