For 100% giving or receiving it's much more fun to be buried in between her legs or seeing her between mine.

But...for sharing, 69 is so much fun! The pace can vary depending on how each of us feel. It's more of an orchestration to keep the song smooth. Each partner can pay attention to the needs and desires of the other and respond.

The occasional times when both of us orgasm together are draining...physically of course...but the feeling of merging energy is wonderfully exhausting. In order for that to happen both of us would have to give our attention to the other and let go at the same time.

Besides, feeling thunder thighs clamping around my ears as she grabs my hips/butt...wellll...I can only dream