I used to be much wilder.. more slutty, when I was younger.. had lots of sex with different partners (still, my number of lovers isn't THAT high), and did crazy things... now, I've been with the same man for five years.. (almost)... his sex drive has never been high.. it took a lot of me calming down, for me to stop being focused on how much sex we WEREN'T having, and to focus on how wonderful the sex we WERE having, was... the sex is fabulous.. I am completely satisfied every time... and no other man has ever satisfied me before.. it's fabulous.