Well, my uncle is getting married 7/14 to a gal he met off e-harmony. It was a long distance relationship (he's in Denver, she was in FL), and it was meant to be, I guess. I think they really do try to focus more on in depth personality questions to do better matching. Try it for just a bit and see what happens...cancelling is always an option. Good luck hun!

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