Well my take is... after kids and a marriage.. if I meet someone and we click... who counts dates? If the mood's there go with it. I know, maybe it's not proper but damn I live in a small community where most women my age are married or very occupied. If I meet somebody who's interesting and wait, there's another guy waiting to sieze the moment. So if a date lasts a weekend, we musta hit it off. Of course, there are those occasions you wake up and think.... this is just too good to be true. Those seem to be the ones who come up in a few days and say.... hubby wants to try again and it's been fun. Sigh..... win some, lose lots but it beats bein' alone.

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