I'm new, but I also want to wish you well. I can say from recent and unpleasant experience that life is Waaayyy too short to spend it on things that aren't fulfilling.

I hope you have a lawyer who is good, and not needlessly looking for conflict.

And your kids will of course be both upset and your greatest source of comfort in the months ahead.

Good luck with it all.

JW

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